Q: I just started dating a guy from my friend group and all our friends are freaking out. The attention we’re getting is kinda crazy and we’re just trying to figure out and enjoy being in a new relationship. What should we do?
A: Your friends are just excited for you. They care about both of you, and they’re excited to see two of their friends happy together. Everything will calm down with them — just give it time.
Before that happens, keep in mind what this is really about: your relationship. It’s really important to build a connection outside of your group. Alone time is key, and while it can be fun to hang out with other people, you have to appreciate your time together. It can be a little strange transitioning from friends to a couple around other mutual friends, but everything will adjust, and your feelings for each other will make everything worth it.
Q: I feel ignored by my best friend. She never comes to parties, she never comes to hang out and she’s always off with other friends. Should I be offended?
A: The only way you can get to the root of the problem is by talking to her. If she really is your best friend, she'll understand that you’re worried about her.
There’s no reason to be offended — she might just be having a tough time. There could be countless things going on, but what’s important to keep in mind is that friends need each other. Sometimes it’s hard to be the first to speak up, but you might be doing her a serious favor by calling attention to the problem. Communication can solve most issues, especially this one.
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